Financial Elder Abuse

Abuse of an elder or a dependent adult is abuse of:
Someone 65 years old or older; or
A dependent adult, who is someone between 18 and 64 that has certain mental or physical disabilities that keep him or her from being able to do normal activities or protect himself or herself.
The law says elder or dependent adult abuse is:
Physical abuse, neglect, financial abuse, abandonment, isolation, abduction (taking the person out of the state against his or her will), or other behavior that causes physical harm, pain, or mental suffering; OR
Deprivation by a caregiver of things or services that the elder or dependent adult needs to avoid physical harm or mental suffering.
If you are an elderly person or a dependent adult being abused in any of these ways or you feel afraid or controlled by a family member, a spouse/partner or former spouse/partner, or a caregiver, it may help you to talk to a counselor, even if you do not want (or are not sure if you want) to ask for legal protection. I can help.

You can ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order if:
You are 65 or older, OR
You are between 18 and 64 and have certain mental or physical disabilities that keep you from being able to do normal activities or protect yourself;
                                   AND
You are a victim of:Physical or financial abuse,
Neglect or abandonment,
Treatment that has physically or mentally hurt you, or
Deprivation (withholding) by a caregiver of basic things or services you need so you will not suffer physically, mentally, or emotionally.
It is possible that you may qualify for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order AND a domestic violence restraining order (like if the person abusing you is a spouse or partner, or a child or grandchild). If this is your case, talk to me or legal aid agency to find out what is the best option for you. 
If you do not qualify for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order, there are other kinds of orders you can ask for:
Domestic violence restraining order (for protection from people you were involved with romantically at some point or close family members). 
Civil harassment restraining order (can be used for neighbors, roommates, coworkers, or more distant family members like cousins, uncles/aunts, etc.). 
Workplace violence restraining order (filed by an employer to protect an employee from violence, stalking, or harassment by another person). 

A restraining order is a court order. It can order the restrained person to:
Not contact or go near you, your children, other relatives, or others who live with you;
Stay away from your home, work, or other places you go to a lot;
Move out of your house (even if you live together); and
Not have a gun.
Once the court issues (makes) a restraining order, it goes into a statewide computer system. This means that law enforcement officers across California can see there is a restraining order in place.

For the person to be restrained, the consequences of having a court order against him or her can be very severe:
He or she will not be able to go to certain places or to do certain things.
He or she might have to move out of his or her home.
He or she will generally not be able to own a gun. (He or she will have to turn in, sell or store any firearms he or she has and not buy a gun while the restraining order is in effect.)
The restraining order may affect his or her immigration status. If you are worried about this, talk to an immigration lawyer to find out if you will be affected.
If the person to be restrained violates the restraining order, he or she may go to jail, or pay a fine, or both.

When people ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order in court, they have to file court forms telling the judge what orders they want and why. What happens after that varies a little from court to court, but the general steps in the court case are:
1. The person wanting protection (or a court-approved guardian or conservator of the protected person) files court forms asking for the restraining order. There is NO fee to file.
2. The judge will decide whether or not to make the order by the next business day. Sometimes the judge decides sooner.
3. If the judge grants (gives) the orders requested, he or she will first make “temporary” orders that only last until the court date. The court date will be on the paperwork. These temporary orders can include issues like:
Ordering the restrained person to stay away from the protected person (and other protected people);
Ordering the restrained person not to have any contact with the protected person (and other protected people); and
Ordering the restrained person to leave the home if he or she lives with the protected person.
4. The person asking for protection will have to “serve” the other person with a copy of all the restraining order papers before the court date. This means that someone 18 or older (NOT involved in the case) must hand-deliver a copy of all the papers to the restrained person.
5. The restrained person has the right to file an answer to the restraining order request, explaining his or her side of the story.
6. Both sides go to the court hearing.
If the protected person does not go to the hearing, the temporary restraining order will usually end that day and there will NOT be a restraining order.
If the restrained person does not go to the hearing, he or she will have no input in the case and his or her side of the story will not be taken into account.
7. At the hearing, the judge will decide to continue or cancel the temporary restraining order. If the judge decides to extend the temporary order, the “permanent” order may last for up to 5 years.

You do not need a lawyer to ask for (or respond to) a restraining order. BUT it is a good idea to have a lawyer, especially if you need special assistance of any kind.
The court process can be confusing and intimidating. Both people will have to see each other in court, and both will have to tell the judge details of what happened in a public courtroom. Having a lawyer can help make the process easier to handle.
For the person asking for protection
Most cities or counties have legal aid agencies that help people ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order. These services are usually free or very low cost. Look for help in your area before you try to do it on your own.
For the person responding to a restraining order
It is more difficult to find free or low-cost legal help if you are responding to a request for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order. But you should still try since legal aid agencies have different guidelines, and your local bar association may have a volunteer lawyer program that can help you.